Yesterday was the big day. Our son departed for Texas and was oh-so-sad. I likened his feelings to what I remembered as empty nest time. Our son doesn't really have a nest anymore since he's been living with us, but perhaps that makes the split with his son even more poignant. He was surely a sad Dad to see his son drive away with us. It's that old good news/bad news situation: the good news is that timing is right for both, the bad news is that they have been buddies for so many years that simply put--they will miss one another so much. Life is about nothing if it isn't about change, right?
After the goodbyes, Hubby and I drove our grandson to his new "apartment." He seems absolutely thrilled to be on his own. Big smiles, hugs, kisses and a happy wave bye-bye. The couple who operate the home and supervise their guests, are just the personalities our grandson thrives with. Very happy, soft-spoken, gentle and loving. But they need to have assistance from each of their guests to have the home function in the way they choose, so everybody shares the work. Expectations are clear and assignments are expected to be completed without too much prompting. All in all, I have moved from cautious to very pleased!
I'm wondering if any of my readers have had similar separations in their family? We move ahead in faith and hope and prayers. We are seeing God's timing in our lives, the situation with our son and grandson, and it's comforting. Are there things the readers can share with me/us? I look forward to your stories too! Jan
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